Wednesday, November 29, 2006

Food Firsts and Road Trips (by Thom)

Miri and Hannah have been a bit under the weather the last few days. They seemed to be getting better but took a turn for the worse. Yesterday we went to the doctor and in addition to prescribing some antibiotics she recommended we give the girls some solid food to help their stomachs. Thus, yesterday we gave the twins their first taste of bananas! The photographic evidence is here.
Unfortunately, the girls also seem to have shared their germs. Kathleen (Amanda's dad's friend who is visiting) and I are both under the weather. We were supposed to go to on a trip tomorrow to see Mali outside the big city but now things are up in the air. Please pray for us as we still hope to make the trip, even if it's shorter.


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Monday, November 27, 2006

Pictures


Having fun with the new camera....

In the field next to our house several women daily sift the ground looking for sand and small rocks to sell.Looking down on Bamako, Mali

Grandpa Ron pulling double-duty

Mmmmm....
Pot pie!

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Thursday, November 23, 2006

Thanksgiving 2006 (by Thom)

1 Samuel 1:27 - I asked the LORD to give me this child, and he has given me my request.

We have a lot to be thankful for this year. The Lord has blessed Amanda and I with more than we could have asked for or expected. We prayed for a child and we were blessed with two beautiful and wonderful girls: Miriam Ruth and Hannah Marie.
Some other things we are thankful for this year:
  • Our friends in Mali, both missionaries and Malians
  • Hannah's improved health
  • A doctor in Bamako who has helped us a lot with the girls
  • Our family's love and support
  • Our church family's love and support
  • Miri's illuminating smile
  • Hannah's deep, searching eyes
  • Strength through sleepless nights
  • That Amanda's dad and friend, Kathleen, could visit us in Mali
  • Our prayer supporters
  • Opportunities to serve, like in my video project for the local church
The list could go on and on. We have a lot to be grateful for this year. Thanks most of all to the Lord for His perfect and undeserved gift of salvation through Jesus Christ. His example of love makes it possible to show love to our girls and each other.


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Arrival (by Thom)

We're happy to report that Amanda's dad, Ron, and his friend Kathleen arrived safely last night in Bamako, Mali! We'll be spending the next two weeks introducing him to his new grand-daughters and catching up. Also, our old camera was dying so I ordered a new one that Ron brought with him. Expect a lot of new pictures soon. Here's a taste with the very flirty Miriam and the watermelon stand next to our house.
UPDATE: I've gone a little photo-crazy! We've added a bunch of pictures of the girls and some of our neighborhood. You can see them here and here.


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Thursday, November 16, 2006

Visits - family and doctors (by Thom)

Most new parents get to share the joy of their new babies with their families at the hospital. Since we adopted and live overseas, we had to miss out on that experience. However, we get a different kind of blessing next week: Amanda's dad is coming to visit!!! This will be the first time anyone from our families gets to personally meet Miri & Hannah and we're more than a little excited. We're going to travel a little so he gets to see some different faces of Mali but mostly this should be a nice time of reunion. He and his friend should get here on Wednesday November 22nd and we're praying for a smooth trip and for health while he's here.
We had a different kind of visit yesterday - a doctor's visit for the girls. It was just a routine checkup, plus they got more vaccinations. Today they're both cranky and sore, but this shall pass. Miri is now 24 inches long and 13 lbs 7 oz. Hannah is 22.8 inches long and 11 lbs 4 oz. This is great progress for both of them. They passed their hearing and development tests, as well.
We're humbled daily as we see how far the girls have come. We thank everyone for their prayers and we especially thank the faithful God who brought them through a very difficult time and gave us two beautiful daughters.


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Sunday, November 12, 2006

Adoption Update Follow-up (by Thom)

We asked for prayer this week as we were expecting a judgment on our adoption of Hannah & Miriam. We got word today, but it wasn't exactly what we were expecting. Here's the email I just got:
Hey Thom, I just tried to call and did not get an answer. I just talked with (the lawyer) and he was able to speak directly with the judge. The earliest court date he was able to get was Thursday December 7th. The judge is in the middle of a campaign and is taken with that, (the lawyer) had to push to get a date in December.
You will need to be present for the court appearance as well as the girls father. (The lawyer) said he would take care of making sure the father is there.

So, even though the adoption won't be finalized this week at least we have a firm date to look forward to. Thanks for continuing prayers!


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Saturday, November 11, 2006

Adoption Update (by Amanda)

We have now had Hannah & Miriam for a little over 3 months. We waited for birth certificates and asked for prayer in that situation. Praise be to God that He worked it out and we got them. Now the wait for the judge to make his ruling is hopefully coming to an end. We received word from our lawyer that the judge should make a decision this week. Please pray with us that this will happen so we can begin with the necessary paperwork for American citizenship. We are very grateful for all the continued support and cannot express how much of a blessing the girls have been to us. We're so joyful that we have been able to share our story with you!


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Friday, November 10, 2006

Four Months Old Today (by Thom)

I got this email today from my father-in-law:
Thom You are slipping!!! It's the girls 4 month birthday and there are no new pictures for almost two weeks. Are you sleeping on the job? When the girls kept you up all night you had time to do the work.
The sad thing is that he's right. Well, here's a start. Today IS their 4 month birthday. Hannah & Miriam were born July 10th and a few weeks later we were given a couple of very small babies, both weighing about 3 pounds. Today Miri is about 14 pounds and Hannah is about 11 lbs. For comparison, look at this picture here.


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Thursday, November 09, 2006

Searching.... (by Thom)

(Note: because of the sensitive nature of this entry several specific details have been left intentionally vague.)

Searching is a word we’ve been using a lot to describe our language teacher. A few months back our regular teacher had to take a break from classes because of another job he had. Just as we were ready to restart our classes (Amanda in Bambara and Thom in French) he had an accident on his motorcycle which severely damaged his hand. Because of this he couldn’t come to teach us and found a substitute teacher for us.

In my first class with this new teacher he began to ask some interesting questions. He asked about Jesus, about why I was a Christian, about why I was in Mali as a missionary, about what I thought love was, and what one must do to become a Christian. Honestly, I was floored. In his religion it is strongly discouraged to ask these sorts of questions. In my best broken French I honestly answered his questions. Later that week we were meeting with another missionary who also uses this person as her language teacher. She told me that he had asked her the same questions! He wasn’t asking for philosophical reasons; he seemed to be honestly searching for truth and answers. Our substitute teacher has also been asking Amanda's Bambara class the same questions. In other classes with the other missionary he’s asked about what will happen when he dies. This has been something that seems to deeply concern him. After getting an answer he asked his religious leader that same question. The leader waited 5 minutes before answering and then said, “Well, there’s heaven and hell. I don’t know what will happen”. He went on to say that he didn’t know what would happen to himself, even. Our teacher found it strange that a religious leader couldn’t honestly say he knew his fate.

Our teacher has been reading the Bible in our language classes and even outside. Please pray for him. Our regular teacher is due back next week and our business relationship with our substitute is over but he has expressed a desire to come and visit as well as have us visit him. One of the greatest things in all of this is that he acknowledges that all of this (the accident and him becoming our substitute teacher) isn’t random chance. Again, please pray for the continuing of his spiritual journey that he will see that Jesus offers a future that is free of uncertainty and will make the commitment that will set him free from spiritual bondage.


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Thursday, November 02, 2006

Village Life (by Thom)

In my last couple of posts I described the two cities where I actually did the filming for my recent video project: Djenne and Macina. In those two cities the national church in Mali has sent Malians to serve as missionaries. My job was to film an interview describing their ministry: their challenges, joys, successes, visions, and persecutions. It was a good but difficult trip. Some of the most interesting times, though, came outside Djenne and Macina in the short stops we made along the way.
The first day I met my Malian colleague in the city of Bla. We spent a short time at his house and then went on the way. Our first stop was San. The national church has established their headquarters in San and so we stopped there for a short time. This is something about Mali that takes getting used to but is so very important. If word got out that we were through the town without stopping to great it would be a great insult. Thus we stopped, sat under a tree for 15 minutes greeting each other, talked about how things are going, and got back on the road. Our next stop was a couple of hours away. There was a church in a small village where my colleague had a friend. We repeated the greeting cycle and continued to Djenne. These stops are so indicative of the relational aspect of African culture. I doubt my friend Abel would even think of not stopping in San. That would be unheard of!
The next day, during the return trip from Djenne, we stopped at a very small village along the road. Abel's wife has family there and someone had recently passed away. We stopped here for a bit longer than the other places. We greeted, but since no one in this small village spoke French I was in the dark for the rest of the stay. What I saw was a lot of chatting and a lot of kids staring at me! Within minutes of arriving at the village there were dozens of kids following us around. I think I counted nearly 40 who were fascinated by me and my white skin. Abel told me that for most of the kids I was the first white person they had ever seen. I also saw a group of kids playing cards. After a moment I realized the game they were playing was basically UNO with a regular deck! That made me laugh!
We then continued on to Macina with one more stop - this time in Bla again at Abel's house. We stopped so he could greet his family and they were very generous. They shared their watermelon with me (watermelon is very expensive this time of year and costs almost a day's wages) and gave me some bath water.
Overall I was mostly left out, language-wise, during the stops but I got to see African culture in action. Greet others. Make sure they know they're important to you. Show interest in the lives of others. Stop and realize life isn't a race. These are some great ideals! I'm glad I got to take this trip.


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